Led by the Lord
Where God guides, He provides.
Genesis(46) (Part of the Origins(45) series)
by Stuart Johns(49) on July 13, 2025 (Sunday Morning(62))
Answered Prayer(1), Faith(5), Faithfulness(6), Obedience(10), Worship(7)
Origins
Led by the Lord
(Genesis 24:1-33)
INTRODUCTION
“I made my pastoral calls in the county hospital and walked back to my car in the parking lot. Just as I reached out to the car door to get inside, I heard, ‘Go see Bob.’ [#1 – Young people, who was the pastor supposed to go see? (Bob)] Bob was a retired fireman, seriously ill with heart problems and confined to a bed because of his ailment. He had recently made a decision to accept Christ and was making wonderful spiritual progress. I took what I heard to be the prompting of the Holy Spirit, but I protested, saying, ‘I was there not long ago. It's not time yet to go back again.’ The prompting persisted, so I got into the car, pulled out of the lot, and headed for Bob's place. It was just a few minutes away, up a rural road winding through beautiful, northern California hills.
I came to Bob's house, pulled into the driveway, and looked over to the big front window of the living room where Bob usually lay in a hospital bed.
Bob was lying there, but he looked different. I thought to myself, ‘He looks dead.’ I hurried to the front door and knocked. Evelyn, his wife, came to the door breathless and distraught. ‘Oh, I'm so glad you're here. Bob just died a few minutes ago!’
We sat together in the kitchen, not saying too much to each other as the man from the funeral home did his work in the other room, getting ready to remove my friend from the home. Quietly, when the time was right, I read from the Scripture, and Evelyn and I prayed, seeking God in the loss of her husband.
I've thought back many times to that afternoon, and I am so glad that I followed the leading of the Spirit. I got there just as someone needed me most.”
Source: Unknown.
[https://www.preachingtoday.com/illustrations/2008/april/10040907.html].
BODY
ME
Divine prompting
I have experienced divine promptings throughout my life
Most of you know the story about my divine calling to pastoral ministry and how that was confirmed by multiple people in the weeks following that calling
There have been times when I have sensed the Lord prompting me to pray for or call certain individuals
It’s amazing to hear what those individuals were going through when I was prompted to pray for them
It gives me chills when I call someone and they need to talk about a situation they are going through
Obedience shows true faith
I had befriended another man who worked in the suite beside the one I worked in
During a break, one day, he was telling me that he was considering moving in with his girlfriend to save on expenses
The Lord prompted me to challenge him not to do that, but I chickened out
When I went back to my office, I felt the conviction of the Holy Spirit for not being obedient
So, I prayed and asked the Lord to give me another opportunity to challenge this man
That opportunity came about a week later
We were standing outside chatting and I mentioned his comment about considering moving in with his girlfriend
I challenged him to trust God and not move in with his girlfriend
His response was something like this, “Thank you, I needed someone to challenge me on that.”
He claimed the name of Christ, yet he was considering doing something that he knew would tarnish that claim and witness
WE
Divine prompting
As disciples of Jesus Christ, we all have probably experienced a divine prompting at one time or another.
How do we respond when those promptings come?
Obedience
Perhaps, like me, we all have experienced the conviction of the Holy Spirit for not being obedient to that prompting
Hopefully, we have all experienced the blessing of obedience, too
Abraham was getting older and probably realized that in order for God’s promise to be fulfilled, his son Isaac was going to have to get married and start having children. Abraham had a couple of criteria for this “bride search” that he had his chief servant swear to abide by. The servant understood the criteria, but asked what he should do if the woman refused. Abraham reassured him that . . .
BIG IDEA – Where God guides, He provides.
Abraham’s faith had developed into a strong faith that trusted God to do what seemed humanly impossible.
Let’s pray
GOD (Genesis 24:1-33)
Promise (vv. 1-9)
Abraham’s state (v. 1)
His age
The narrator told us that Abraham was now old
Well advanced in years
It is believed that Abraham was almost 140 years old [#2 – Young people, how old was Abraham at this time? (140)]
Isaac would have been 40 years old
Sarah had been gone about two or three years
His status
God had blessed him abundantly
“Age and wealth are often signs of a blessed life (e.g., Job 42:12).” [Mathews, The New American Commentary, Volume 1B, Genesis 11:27-50:26, 326]
God had blessed Abraham in every way
Long life
Flocks and herds
Gold and silver
Male and female servants
Promised covenant son
Promise of land (a country)
The narrator moved from Abraham’s state to a conversation that he had with his chief servant
Instruction (vv. 2-4)
Chief servant
Most Bible translations have “oldest/eldest servant”
From that translation, many scholars believe that it could be Eliezer, who was his most trusted servant and household administrator
Genesis 15:2, But Abram said, “O Sovereign Lord, what can you give me since I remain childless and the one who will inherit my estate is Eliezer of Damascus?”
We are not told if it was Eliezer, but if it was, he would also be old and advanced in years
Put your hand under my thigh
This must have been the customary way for oaths to be sworn in the ancient Near East
The hand would actually be put under the male reproductive organ, since that was the source of life/offspring
“Westermann says, ‘The rite of touching the generative organ when taking an oath occurs elsewhere only in Gen. 47:29 where the circumstances are the same, namely, imminent death. The one who is facing death secures his last will by an ‘oath at the source of life.’’ (Westermann, 384” [Gangel & Bramer, Holman Old Testament Commentary, Genesis, 201]
Swear by the Lord, the God of heaven and the God of earth
This was not a deity that the Canaanites or Abraham’s relatives in Mesopotamia worshiped
This is the only God who deserves to be called God
He is the God of Creation and the Cosmos
Ethnic purity
Abraham urged his servant to not choose a wife for Isaac from the Canaanites
He instructed him to go back to Mesopotamia to find a wife from among his own relatives
NOTE: Abraham’s relatives were also polytheistic in their beliefs, so perhaps Abraham was more concerned about ethnic purity than religious practice
The instructions given by Abraham caused his servant to ask two legitimate questions
Question & Answer (vv. 5-8)
Questions
What if the woman does not want to come back to Canaan with me?
Keep in mind that the distance from Canaan to Mesopotamia was around 400 miles
It would take about a month for the servant to travel to Abraham’s home area
The woman would be leaving everything she knew, and embracing her new family
There wouldn’t be any weekend trips home to visit her mom and sisters
She would be making a life-changing decision to accept the marriage proposal
The servant wanted to know Abraham’s wishes in case Abraham passed away while he was gone
Do you want me to take Isaac back to Mesopotamia?
If the woman was unwilling to return with him, did Abraham want him to take Isaac back to Mesopotamia?
The servant wanted to know which criteria was most important to his master – wife from his own people or remaining in Canaan
We see Abraham’s answer to the two questions
Answers
Don’t take Isaac back to Mesopotamia!
God promised to establish Abraham’s offspring in Canaan
Perhaps Abraham was concerned that if Isaac left Canaan, he would never return
Abraham believed God’s promise with all of his heart and never looked back
PRINCIPLE #1 – “True faith always results in obedience.” [Wiersbe]
It would have been easy for Abraham to abandon Canaan and return to what was familiar, but he held on to God’s promise by faith
This is true for us as well
When God calls us out of our comfort zone
When He asks us to follow Him to a place that is far away from family and friends
Do we follow in faith or resist in doubt and fear
I declined the offer, twice, to move from Ohio to Missouri, to work at the headquarters of Child Evangelism Fellowship in the USA Ministries department
We did not have any family in Missouri (I did have a cousin and her family in Kansas, but they were not close)
Moving from Missouri to California took us further away from family
We had faith that God was calling us to both of those places, so we obeyed in faith, trusting Him
He blessed us with incredible friends and neighbors who became our surrogate family
Is God calling you to obey Him, by faith, in a particular area?
Are you resisting that calling?
#1 – My Next Step Today Is To: Obey the Lord’s calling on my life and follow Him by faith.
Abraham knew from past experiences that God would provide and so he encouraged his chief servant
God will provide
Abraham reassured his servant that God would send His angel before him to prepare the way for his success
Where God guides, He provides.
Abraham was confident in God’s ability to transform the heart and mind of a young woman to accept the adventure of a lifetime
Abraham then helped to put his servant’s mind at ease
Release from oath
If the woman was unwilling to come back with him, then he would be released from the oath
Abraham reiterated again that he did not want Isaac to go back to Mesopotamia
With his questions answered and his mind at ease, Abraham’s servant was willing to swear the oath
Oath (v. 9)
Abraham’s servant placed his hand under his master’s thigh
While doing that he promised to find a wife for Isaac from Abraham’s family in Mesopotamia and not take Isaac back there
Once the oath was sworn, it was time to prepare for the trip
Preparation (vv. 10-11)
Before (v. 10)
The servant took ten camels and loaded them down with all kinds of good things (choice things, expensive things) [#3 – Young people, what animal did the servant use to carry the good things? (camel)]
We’re not told what these good, choice, expensive things were
In verse 22 we find out that there was a gold nose ring and two gold bracelets
The narrator left us in suspense as to the other items that the servant took as a bride price
The location in Mesopotamia
We were told that the servant went to the town of Nahor in the region of Aram Naharaim
The town of Nahor could either refer to the actual name of the town or to the town where Abraham’s brother Nahor lived (perhaps Haran)
Aram Naharaim means “Aram of the two rivers” [Mathews, 332]
Northwestern Mesopotamia [northern Syria and Iraq today]
The two rivers would have been the Euphrates and its tributary the Habor/Habur/Khabur
This was the preparation for the trip
PRINCIPLE #2 – God will direct us when we trust and obey His Word.
Abraham’s servant had a general idea of where he was supposed to go
This was more than Abraham had when he left Haran
If this chief servant had been with Abraham since he left Haran, then he would know where to go, but we were not given that information here
He had to trust and obey God’s word of guidance as he traveled north
When we obey God’s leading by faith, He will direct us – where to go and what to do
We can claim that truth for our lives today – God will direct us when we trust and obey His Word
About one month passed between verses 10 and 11
After (v. 11)
In verse 11 we saw the preparations of the servant after he arrived in the town
He had the camels kneel down near the well outside the town
This was strategic on the servants part
He was preparing to watch the evening trek to the well by the young women of the town
What better way to encounter women who could be potential wife material for Isaac
There was one more vital part of his preparation – prayer!
Prayer (vv. 12-21)
Prayer (vv. 12-14)
He addressed the Lord
Since he was Abraham’s liaison, he addressed the Lord as the God of my master, Abraham
This does not mean that the servant did not have faith in the Lord
Requests
Give me success
Show kindness to my master Abraham
The servant needed to know which young woman was God’s choice for Isaac, so he asked for two specific things to identify her
First, when I ask a girl for a drink, she will lower her jar and give me a drink
Second, without prompting, she will recognize that my camels need water and offer to give them water too
He petitioned the Lord again to show kindness to his master, Abraham
Aren’t you glad that the Lord knows what we need before we ask (Matthew 6:8) and because He knows before we ask, He is already acting on our behalf
Answer (vv. 15-21)
The Lord had already prompted Rebekah to leave her house and head to the well while Abraham’s servant was praying
The narrator gave us some key pieces of information
Genealogy
He did not keep us in suspense about whether or not Rebekah was part of Abraham’s family
While the servant did not know it yet, we were given insider information
Rebekah was the daughter of Bethuel
She was the granddaughter of Nahor and Milcah, Abraham’s brother and sister-in-law
Attributes
Rebekah was very beautiful – probably referring to her appearance
She was a virgin – in the ancient Near East it did not necessarily mean she has not been sexually active, but rather it meant that she was of marriageable age
She was pure – no man had ever lain with her (which in our modern culture means she was a virgin, she had not been sexually active)
Again, the servant was not aware of these attributes when he saw her
At the moment, the servant was relying on the criteria he had asked the Lord about
Rebekah went down to the spring, filled her jar, and came up again
The servant was hopeful, so he hurried over to meet her
I’m assuming that Rebekah was the first woman to come to the well, which was why he hurried over to meet her
He was hopeful and enthusiastic about the Lord’s ability to answer his prayer
Just imagine if he had already approached multiple women and they had rejected his request for a drink or, if they gave him a drink, but hadn’t offered to water his camels
I think his demeanor would have been less hurried with Rebekah
When he asked her for a drink, she lowered her jar and gave him a drink, then she offered to draw water for his camels until they are satisfied [#4 – Young people, what did Rebekah use to water the camels? (jar)]
She didn’t waste time, but emptied her jar into the trough
Then she ran back down to the well to get more water and continued this process until the camels were taken care of
Camels who have not had a drink for a couple of days could consume as much as 25 gallons of water to rehydrate
Multiply that by 10 camels and you have 250 gallons of water
On average, a water jar in the ancient Near East, could hold up to 3 gallons
That would be a potential of 83 trips down to the well and back – talk about water aerobics
“When you see a man or a woman going out of his or her way to minister, you have found someone very special.” [Courson, Jon Courson’s Application Commentary, Old Testament, Volume 1: Genesis-Job, 113]
While she was serving the needs of the camels, the servant was quietly watching her to discern if the Lord had made his journey a success
We can assume that he felt certain that the Lord had made his journey a success by what he did next
Presentation (vv. 22-25)
Gifts
The camels were satisfied and the servant was satisfied
So, he took out a gold nose ring and two gold bracelets [#5 – Young people, what did the servant give to Rebekah? (nose ring, gold bracelets)]
It was apparent that he gave these items to her, because in verse 30, Laban saw her wearing them
Request
He then asked her whose daughter she was and if there was room in her father’s house for he and his companions to spend the night
She told him that she was the daughter of Bethuel, the son of Milcah and Nahor
She answered his second request by telling him that they had plenty of resources and space to house them for the night
PRINCIPLE #3 – God answers prayer!
We saw that God answered the prayer of the servant through Rebekah
She willingly gave him a drink of water and then offered to water his camels
I am a huge proponent of praying specific prayers, because then we know when God answers them
I’m not talking about praying specific prayers that try to corner God or prosper individuals
I believe we can pray specific prayers according to God’s will and purposes and He will answer
We have to remember that God answers prayer in three ways
Yes, No, and Wait
There are times when we feel like God has not answered our prayers, because we did not get the answer we wanted or hoped for (so we actually missed His answer)
How we react to answered prayer is so important
That is what we will see next in verses 26 and 27
Praise (vv. 26-27)
The servant bowed down and worshiped the Lord right in front of Rebekah, presumably
He again addressed his praise to the Lord, the God of my master Abraham
He acknowledged that the Lord had been kind and faithful to Abraham
PRINCIPLE #4 – God is faithful!
We can trust in the faithfulness of God
That is His character and His character never changes
How have we seen the faithfulness of God?
At Jerusalem Chapel, we have seen the faithfulness of God through His provision for our finances, through salvations and baptisms, through spiritual growth, through the Awana program, and so much more
Personally, we have seen God’s faithfulness through answered prayer for family members, through God’s provision for us financially, through healings, through His protection, and so much more
How have you seen God’s faithfulness in your life? (take a moment and write a couple of things down)
The servant also recognized the Lord’s faithfulness to him
He acknowledged that the Lord had led him to the house of his master’s relatives
This was Abraham’s nephew’s family that the servant would be staying with
PRINCIPLE #5 – Worship is the right response to God’s faithfulness.
When was the last time you have bowed down before the Lord and worshiped Him for His faithfulness?
In our busyness we may neglect to even thank the Lord for His faithfulness and answered prayers, let alone bow down before Him and worship Him
#2 – My Next Step Today Is To: Bow down before the Lord in worship for His faithfulness to me.
We are going to give everyone the opportunity to bow down before the Lord in worship during the closing song this morning
Rebekah understood the significance of what was taking place, so she ran back to her house
Provision (vv. 28-33)
Pronouncement (v. 28)
Rebekah told her family what had happened when she went to draw water at the well
Perhaps they were wondering where she was, since it probably took her a long time to water the camels
We learned that Rebekah had a brother named Laban (that name should sound familiar and he will play a significant role with Isaac and Rebekah’s son, Jacob)
Hospitality (vv. 29-33)
Perhaps Laban was running the household at this point, which was why Bethuel did not go out to greet the servant
It was probable that Laban either made preparations prior to going to the spring or gave instructions to the household servants to make preparations for the entourage
Laban hurried out to meet Abraham’s servant and invited him to stay with them
Perhaps the gifts he gave Rebekah and his worship of the Lord, prompted Laban to address him as “blessed by the Lord”
The servant followed Laban back to Bethuel’s house
Hospitality shared
The camels were unloaded and given bedding and food
Water was brought for the travelers to wash their feet
Food was brought out for the men to eat
Urgent message
Since the Lord had so graciously and faithfully answered his prayer, the servant did not want to eat first
He wanted to share the purpose of his trip
Laban encouraged him to tell them, but that’s a narrative for another time
YOU
Are you ready to obey the Lord’s calling on your life and follow Him by faith?
Are you ready to bow down before the Lord, in worship, for His faithfulness to you?
WE
We can encourage those in our congregation by affirming the calling God has place on their lives
We can model worship for God’s faithfulness by bowing down before Him
CONCLUSION
As the worship team leads us in the closing song this morning, I want to encourage everyone to come forward and bow down to the Lord in worship of His faithfulness.
